Men are from.....

First things first let's make this clear.

My blog is an expression of my opinions of things going on around me politically, professionally, and relational. My thoughts and opinions are not directed at anyone in specific.

I've managed to stop blogging because I was sick of the emails that say "you were hurt" or "you were offended." I titled this blog "The Truth According to Esther" for a reason.... Based on whatever is going on, I am entitled to that opinion. And this blog is my outlet for expressing that.

So with that said, let's talk about Men!

Yeah, for a few days lets talk about men.

I know, I am single and what could I possibly know about men?

Men tend to think they know everything about women! And women think they know all things there is to know about men. The sad reality.... NEITHER SEX UNDERSTANDS AND KNOWS EVERYTHING THERE IS TO KNOW ABOUT THE OPPOSITE SEX! (oh yeah, I so went there)

I don't even think women learn from the past mistakes that they've made with men, so they aren't doomed to repeat them. I've watched friend after friend do the very same thing that went wrong with the last one and wonder why they are left hurt.

Ladies, read this slowly and then exhale..... MEN ARE SIMPLE CREATURES. They weren't created to be complexed or difficult to understand. Of the the two sexes....these guys are probably the easiest to understand. And as a woman....let's face it, we're difficult!!

Primary example, let's go shop for an LCD high definition television. Men will probably hit the local Best Buy. They'll tell the sales guy exactly what they are looking for and by George W. the sales guy will give them what they are looking for and offer them the idea of saving 10% if they apply for a credit card, therefore making our LCD HDTV a little more affordable. Same deal but now a woman, ladies, we'll go to Target, Sears, Wal-mart, HH Gregg, back to Sears, Circuit City, Ebay, Craigslist, back to Wal-mart, and then settle on the idea that it will be cheaper and available on Black Friday even if we have to stand outside in 30 degree weather. And girl stop trippin cause you know I am telling the truth.

When it comes to relationships with the opposite sex, we over complicate everything! It's like we forget to think with right mind that God gave us.

Now hear me clearly, there's nothing wrong with being a smart, independent woman. Many of us are very good at shining during a discussion and engaging a man on an intellectual level. We'll impress a man and make him enjoy our company, but feel disappointed to learn that he feels no chemistry – even if we have a great deal in common.

Well let me help you out here, it's because when you try to connect with a man through his mind, he doesn't feel a thing!

Something I've learned from one of my mentors this year--for a man to fall in love with you, he needs to feel touched by you in a deep, connected, emotional sense.

Let that marinate because tomorrow I will talk about the women who try to connect with a man physically!

(and don't worry men, I'll give you some insight on women)